faye In today’s installment of closet Confessionals, we meet a reformed shopaholic who admits to being a “work in progress” (aren’t we all?!). CC 137 hails from LA, and has been collecting bags since college. The purchase of her first coach bag kicked off her collection, and some years later, the purchase of another coach bag impacted her collection too. With one red bucket bag, CC 137 realized how much more fun it is to buy what you love rather than what is practical.
This confessor also discusses how her habits changed over the years, and through hard work and self-reflection, she’s worked hard to address some of her addictive patterns. COVID has helped this collector too, who is now focused on streamlining her collection with a strict one-in-one-out policy. read the full CC now, and don’t forget to submit your own.
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Základy
Age: 53
Gender Identity: Female
Location: Los Angeles, CA
Occupation: university English Professor
Industry: Education
Salary: 86,000
Household Income: $210,000
The Bags
Are you a PurseForum member? Áno
How many bags do you own? 27
What bags are in your collection? Coach, Longchamp, Louis Vuitton, Dior, Aspinal of London, Alexander McQueen, Prada, Ferragamo, Tory Burch, Mulberry
How much is your collection worth? Geez, that’s a good question. Nie som si istý.
What is your most expensive bag? lady Dior
What are the most important brands or pieces in your collection? Dior is now my favorite brand. I bought a pre-loved lady Dior art bag and it is beautiful. I have a Vuitton Neverfull world tour that has special patches from the places I’ve visited.
What age did you get your first designer bag, and what was it? I got my first designer bag when I was 26. It was a coach drawstring bag. I wanted a coach bag from the time I was in college and a classmate got one from her mom.
Is there a specific bag you are looking to purchase next? I don’t know why, but I want a silver leather bag. I know they were the rage a few years back, so I’m looking at pre-loved Chanel or Dior.
Any particular bag that holds a special sentimental value? I have a twenty-two year old red coach bucket bag. It is pretty banged up and really heavy, but I refuse to get rid of it. It was the first bag that I bought that wasn’t a “go with everything” bag. I just loved the rich red color. since then I buy bags that I love not something “traditional”
Do you feel like your bags change people’s perceptions of you or how you’re treated? Áno. When I was in grad school, I carried a Chanel Flap to class and one person noticed it and commented out loud. The person wasn’t being rude or anything. If anything they were complimentary, but I was self-conscious. It made the class realize I wasn’t like them. I was older than all of them and this made me stand out more
Have your bag-carrying habits changed since Covid? I work from home now, so I downsized my collection
Nakupovanie
How typically do you buy new bags? I used to buy bags a lot, like a lot a lot. However, I’m being more mindful with my purchases.
Has the Coronavirus pandemic changed your shopping habits or overall attitude towards luxury? I shop more online or through sales associates via email.
Which stores do you frequent the most? Dior, Louis Vuitton and Neiman Marcus
Do you ever buy second-hand bags? Where do you buy used? Áno. I like Fashionphile, and Yoogi’s closet.
Do you sell old bags to pay for new purchases? I didn’t in the past but with Covid, I’ve had a change of habit. now I have a strict one in one out policy and I want to keep my collection at about 30 bags. I used to have a collection as large as 100+ and I realized that was ridiculous. I’ve sold bags to Fashionphile and TheRealReal. I prefer Fashionphile for luxury.
Do you ever feel societal pressure to purchase more bags? No. pressure comes from me, and me alone. I love bags.
Do you consider your bag purchases investments? Oh gawd no!! It is an investment in my happiness and that’s it.
Who influences your buying decisions? I watch YouTubers or influencers, but I usually see a bag on social media or in magazines, and then use the youtube community to see specifics about the bag.
Are sales associate relationships instrumental to your shopping? Nie naozaj. I just started developing SA relationships because of lockdown. I found a wonderful SA at Bergdorf Goodman, from the PurseForum btw, and I had a wonderful experience. I realized the ease with which you can acquire bags and the special touch a SA can provide.
Why do you enjoy shopping, beyond just acquiring something new? Pre-Covid I loved to touch things and talking to sales staff. It was a social activity for me, in addition to getting something new. Now, shopping isn’t as enjoyable. I buy bags that suit my needs. I am a total shopaholic, but I am working on changing that.
Have you ever felt like you received inferior service at a store or boutique duE na váš vzhľad, etnicitu alebo pohlavie? Bol som v butiku Chanel v Beverly Hills. Bol som úplne odfúknutý, pri viac ako jednej príležitosti. Vošiel som a snažil som sa upútať pozornosť SA a oni sa pozreli za mňa na ostatných zákazníkov. Inokedy sme s sestrou išli do toho istého butiku a nebolo to ani preplnené a nikto ani neuznal našu prítomnosť. Legrační je, že sme išli do Hermès a boli tak milí a nápomocní. Tieto zážitky ma skutočne odradili z Chanel. Milujem topánky Chanel, ale dostávam ich v Nordstrom alebo v nejakom inom obchode. A keď som dostal tašku, bolo to z trhu s druhou rukou.
Peniaze
Kto platí za vaše tašky? Ja.
Odložíte rozpočet na nákupy tašky? No
Témy tabu
Kúpili ste si niekedy falšovanie, pretože ste si nemohli dovoliť dizajnérsku položku? Áno, chcel som zlú LV sooooo a mám kvalitnú almu. Vyzeralo to a voňalo ako skutočná vec, ale nakoniec som vedel, že je falošná, aj keď nikto iný neurobil a prestal som ho nosiť. Nechal som svoje deti, aby s tým, aby s ním zaklopali.
Skryte niekedy nákupy pred svojím významným iným? Robil som to, keď som bol mladší. Práve som sa cítil vinný za to, že som na seba míňal peniaze. Odvtedy som zmenil túto perspektívu. Hovorím so svojím manželom o tom, čo chcem kúpiť. A povedal som mu svoju politiku v jednej z nich.
Čo je najbláznivejšie, čo ste urobili, aby ste si mohli dovoliť tašku? Predal veľa vreciek v strednom dosahu, aby získal Dior.
Myslíte si, že vaše nakupovanie je niekedy problémom? Cítili ste sa niekedy, akoby ste zápasili s nákupnou závislosťou? Moje slovo, áno! Mal som vážny problém s nakupovaním, ale nielen pre kabelky, ale pre všetko. Pomenuješ to, kúpil som si to … knihy, make-up (ani ich ani veľa nenosím), topánky, oblečenie atď. Naučil som sa terapiou a sebareflexom, že som sa snažil vyplniť prázdnotu. once I recognized this, I started to change. Ako som už povedal, som v priebehu práce a urobil som dobrý pokrok.
Zvyšok z toho
Máte nejaké ďalšie drahé záľuby alebo vášne? Kabelky sú moja slabosť. Všetko ostatné sa robí v rozumnom rozlíšení.
Chceli by ste zahrnúť ešte niečo? Nepočúvajte ľudí, ktorí vám hovoria, že luxusné kabelky sú investície, ako v peňažnom výnose. They can be investments in your wardrobe because the will last a lot longer and probably can be used for (with careful shopping), multiple purposes, but they are generally not money earners. Kúpte si to, čo máte radi, nie to, čo si myslíte, že by ste mali dostať. I watched a lot of YouTube during the beginning of the pandemic and I kept hearing about investment purchases, until I started to have that little thought creep into my brain when I was thinking about buying something. The reality is unless it is a rare Hermès B or K. You will not make money.